There are always different ideas at different ages. After all, life experiences have destined that people will not be as carefree and innocent as they were in their youth when they reach middle age. Whether it is family affection or love, their mood will change greatly.
When women reach middle age, they will obviously no longer be like young girls who only value love and think that feelings are more important than anything else. Many times, being attracted to a person is no longer just about appearance and money. Instead, “inner qualities” have become the qualities that women value.
So, what kind of men are middle-aged women likely to be attracted to? This is a question raised by a reader. With this question, Ximei interviewed many middle-aged women, hoping that their answers and Ximei’s analysis can help you understand the hearts of middle-aged women.
Ms. Wang, 47 years old: My ex-husband is a person who has no boundaries, so at this age, if I remarry, I will definitely find a down-to-earth man.
Being down-to-earth is the most important quality of a person. Even if you have a fortune and you are in the limelight now, if you are not down-to-earth enough and do not know how to be humble in your life, one day you will fall from the clouds to the mud.
On the contrary, if a man is down-to-earth enough, he will have the perseverance to work hard and be able to hold on to the fruits of his victory. Even if he has not achieved much now, he will grow up little by little in his calm and steady pace.
A down-to-earth man has an upward trajectory in life. Middle-aged women have experienced too many things and are eager for stability, and down-to-earth men can obviously give them such a sense of stability.
Ms. Bian, 51 years old: I have worked hard for most of my life. To be honest, I have not enjoyed any happiness. Although I am over 50 years old, I still hope that there is a man who can love me and let me enjoy happiness.
It is said that a man’s happy life is nothing more than “a wife and children on a warm bed”. Having a wife who can love and spoil and can make the house comfortable is happiness for a man.
Similarly, for middle-aged women, having a husband who loves them is a kind of happiness. Even if life may not be comfortable and enjoyable enough, a harmonious relationship between husband and wife is more real than material luxury.
When women are young, they have seen too much false feelings and the spiritual emptiness behind material luxury. Therefore, when they reach middle age, they understand that having a husband who loves them is more important than anything else.
In addition, most women in middle age have suffered a lot, and even in their previous relationships, they have never enjoyed happiness. Therefore, a man who knows how to love women can easily make middle-aged women fall in love.
Ms. Guo, 55 years old: My ex-husband passed away ten years ago. In the past ten years, there have been men pursuing me, but I still can’t let him go. He is a very responsible man. Although he is short and fat, I just like him.
What kind of man can make a woman feel at ease? Is it a rich man or a powerful man?
In fact, for middle-aged women, all the external aspects of a man are not as good as his sense of responsibility and his courage to take responsibility.
A responsible man will ensure the safety of a woman first when something dangerous happens; he will stand up decisively when a woman needs him; he will not escape when he needs to take responsibility… Such a man is what middle-aged women value. Even if a man is not good enough in other aspects, his sense of responsibility is enough to give a woman the courage to follow him.
Ximei’s emotional conclusion:
It is said that age is a woman’s shortcoming. Women are worthless after the age of 30, and they don’t have the youthful vitality of young girls.
But on the other hand, age is actually a woman’s advantage. After all, middle-aged women have experience and charm that young girls don’t have, and they have a strong aura and mature thinking.
Therefore, men who have a good impression of middle-aged women should know what kind of men middle-aged women are likely to be attracted to, so that they can successfully impress women.
People often say that true love has nothing to do with age. As long as two people are suitable and love each other, they can continue to write each other’s stories. Because, whether you are a man or a woman, Ximei hopes that you can be bolder and bravely pursue love.
What kind of men are middle-aged women likely to be attracted to?
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