Learn this 1 point, and women will be easily captured

A few days ago, a brother came to me for consultation. He knew a girl who worked in business K and wanted to pursue her. However, he spent a lot of money. The girl finally broke up with him.
This brother had a problem, that is, although he spent a lot of money on the girl, he always made demands on her and acted very smart.
He asked me how he should get along with such a girl.
I told him one thing, if you can avoid it, don’t get along with her, if you do, your personality must change. It’s best to be the kind of person who is stupid and rich, so that you can pretend to be a pig and eat the tiger.
Think about it carefully, what are the needs of this kind of business K woman? The first is to have money, and then to be easy to cheat.
It’s not to teach you to be treacherous and calculating, but you have to analyze people. If you want to get in touch with this kind of woman, you must clearly know the other party’s needs, and then what you should do. Otherwise, it will be the result of this brother.
For different girls, what is your personality, this is called attribute. Simply put, you can attract different types of women by releasing different attributes.
For example, if the girl you are pursuing is a girl who often goes clubbing and drinks, you can make yourself a little yellow-haired girl with a social atmosphere, which is far more effective than a successful person.
If you pursue a girl with an artistic atmosphere, you can be more melancholy and play guitar and piano.
Many brothers don’t understand this truth. And blindly think: I am like this, I must be real, and those who like me will come naturally.
The last person around me who still insists on this idea is now almost 50 years old. Now I don’t say it, but those who like him will come naturally. Because if you find a second marriage with children, no one will follow him.
Never fight against reality, unless you are a warrior, unless you can’t get along with yourself.
Attributes in a relationship are divided into short-term attributes and long-term attributes. Short-term attributes look at appearance, interest, and material ability; long-term attributes look at personality, values, and ways of getting along.
Many boys easily confuse the two. If you are in a relationship, then relax, show more happy things, and don’t always mention responsibilities, otherwise girls will feel heavy. How can we have a happy relationship with you?
If you want to find a long-term partner, you have to act like a playboy, which makes people feel unsure and think you are unreliable.
Therefore, you must find the right attributes for yourself, so that you can quickly achieve a breakthrough in the relationship. Otherwise, it is meaningless.
In terms of detailed operations, if this girl is met through social software, what you need to do is to maximize the short-term attributes. For example, the display must be done well. Show the value of the display.
If you are going on a blind date, then what you need to do is to show your long-term attributes as much as possible. For example, a stable and motivated job, a tolerant and easy-going personality, and a sense of responsibility and commitment.
Of course, you also need to judge the other party’s attributes. In addition to the most obvious display in the circle of friends, you must also base it on the effective information she reveals during your communication with her. For example, values, consumption concepts, and lifestyles, etc.
Once you master this, you can greatly improve your success rate.